Wednesday, December 9, 2015

Let Go...

According to Steve Maraboli "Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny."
It's always easy to say, "Let it Go" , but the person who always let it go, feels the real depth of his or her feelings or sadness.We generally try to overcome or ignore our emotions which is really quite hard for us. But it is really required to move on for being normal.We suffer, even I suffered many times from the sorrow of our emotions & deeds.

Telling "Let it Go...", is just like taunting others,that you cannot be hurt by any sorrows which is an Universal Lie.Because no human in this world is inevitable of Sorrow or Happiness,Love or Hatred.

So Friends instead of saying someone just "Let it Go...", just listen to him/her their problems, if possible tell some solution, otherwise explain them about the good things, so that they could really "Let it Go..." & if possible, just give them Hug or be affectionate (if possible).

Give Time to Yourself for "Letting It GO"

Guys, those who are suffering from any sadness, just don't allow others to taunt it,just don't remain silent among the Bullies/taunting, because you only have some choices against these taunting,
  • Either react hard (both Violent & Non-Violent) -> Has great effect upon our & others LIFE...resulting in uncertain Death/Depression/Frustations.
  • Ignore -> It also has great effect in our & others Life,most of the time (Sadness/Loneliness/Suicide),


So Guys just confront it, ask the guy/girl what is his or her problem with your emotions, but in a non-violent way.And ask him in such a manner that they Guy/Girl should think more than one time before taunting others.

So, Friends just a Piece of Advice:
"Be a DILIGENT Guy", 
before doing any Above Act, because lastly 
"The choice is Ultimately Yours..."

Monday, November 9, 2015

Bonding Among Us

As we presume about others, so do people think about us, but you know as same pole repel each other & opposite ones attract, so do the same thinking's collide & most of the time the bonding between people occurs in such a way that we have never imagined off.

But, instead of different or same thinking, frequencies, views, we people can get along with any person, which has been quite problematic in this 21st Century, but it is not impossible. As it was well said by Alex Morritt that, "The more time we spend interconnected via a myriad of devices, the less time we have left to develop true friendships in the real world."

In order to get attached with any person, or group of people, we just need to be gentle, kind & adjust with people, instead of showing our ego. This all above was about connecting to any person or group of people.

        Being LONELY is Quite HARD...
But Mates what do you think?, is it fair that only connection from one side is always tried, rather we should give opportunity to different people to connect with us. If not an opportunity than at least a slide chance for that person to get along with us.

Once my Teacher said that, “Time is a Healer", I don't know whether he is correct or not, but I'm quite sure of that spending time with a GOOD or LOYAL Person, is not a BAD experience, in compared to being lonely with the High-Tech Toys of 21st Century.

So Friends it is my urging proposals to all of you that,
"Please give Yourself a chance to be a Cheerful Person by giving an opportunity to the forthcoming Person or People"...


Friday, November 6, 2015

The Wicked Inside

Welcome Back...To Our Voice, Most of the time we presume that there is no evil inside us, but we are Wrong most of the time, as we are terrified to face the BAD in Us. But once we let that wicked thing flow through us, we become free from our inner conscience.We just get it what is Good or Bad for Us, letting ourself to do the right thing.

As it was well said by Milan Kundera , 
''When the heart speaks, the mind finds it indecent to object'', which is absolutely correct,as our Heart & Brain are the two sides of the same coin among which, we should choose very wisely. 

Speaking of Devil we all have our worst part, but it totally depends on us whether we want let that part to take over us & control our activities, instead we can control that Bad part of Us & implement it in different places where it is required to change any Bad into Good, now you Guys must be thinking how can the worst part of us change any Bad into Good, but friends believe me, it is possible, an Evil can be defeated by another Evil only.
Choose Wisely Mates...
Most of the time people thinks they can create or produce or fabricate new thing or anything, but Mates they are wrong, because we only get the chance to choose. To choose between Good & The Greater Good.

Some people also think that they cannot do anything, everything depends on Fate, even they are wrong too, as they also get the chance to choose. Eventually, each one of us get the chance to choose.To choose between the Good The Greater Good.Now it entirely depends on Us  what or which side we want to choose.

Last but not the Least, I just want to say that,

"It's not our Name that we are remembered For, It's our Deeds/Actions which makes us MEMORABLE".


Thursday, November 5, 2015

Happiness Within

"It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness " by Charles Spurgeon, clearly mentions that, we don't need any reason to be HAPPY, because Happiness is just a state of mind,which makes us feel good about Ourself,Others or anything or may be everything.Happiness gives us the freeness to clearly think without any negative thinking, making most of the objectives of our LIFE, to complete successfully.

Mates don't take Happiness as any quantity, rather take it as a quality, which can evolve the best in YOU, making yourself an Wonderful Person, in this Planet Earth.Generally We People Love to interact with new people, so do I, but sometimes due to our official/academic busyness, time takes us little apart from our friends/cholics/colleague, making us little bore type, or might be unsocial for any sudden parties,or gathering.
INNER HAPPINESS is the Happiness that Matters.

But Guys we should never think for a moment that we cannot readjust ourself or fit into the frame of the social group or society.Instead we should talk to new person, so that we could be able to know different people among different places over the whole World, and the most important point is that we get to know our own-self.


Friends,just remember HAPPINESS is a state of Mind, which totally depends on Us & our Activities as we do.So Guys try to be HAPPY...& embrace your SADNESS...


Tuesday, October 27, 2015

The Mortal's Stages

As it was well said by Abraham Lincoln that,''The best way to predict the future, is to create it", so I agree too,with this great saying, as each one of us is well aware that,we people Love to live in the PAST or FUTURE instead of being in the PRESENT.

Thus we people, becomes Happy or Sad by thinking about the past or future, letting our emotions to take decisions of our LIFE, which is harmful or foolish most of the time. Seeking into our old memories or Past is good, but indulging our-self into the memories, makes us horrible.

Speaking of Future,  we always want to make our future bright, so we just keep thinking of good future:like better job,better house,better lifestyle,better companions,kids,family,etc.....Yes we people just think let these bright future's to be in our Virtual World, instead of making this dreams real.


Just like the Moments of  "LIFE" or  "MORTALITY"...

My fellow mates just remember the great saying of Dr. A.P.J Abdul Kalam,"Dreams transforms into thoughts & thoughts results in Action". As per me,we people should not only Dream, but also Fulfill our dreams into action, so that we could Live our Dreams.

But for fulfilling our Dreams into actions we should be able to live in the Present moment, so that we could take hard decisions during the crucial stages of our LIFE.


Remember Mates,PAST Takes Us To Regrets, FUTURE Takes Us To Worries, But PRESENT Takes Us Towards HAPPINESS.Last but not the Least, I would like to conclude that, friends just 


"GO FOR IT"...

Sunday, October 25, 2015

The Starter's Time...

Hey Guys, Its the first day for this blog spot, namely "Our Voice", though there are many things I want to speak about but for today it will be very simple and brief.
Being a starter I would like to share some of my experiences over time to time, from place to place,etc. The things I want to share consists of Happiness,Sorrow,Good,Bad,Simple and Adult things, but in those words might lie the true facts of each One's Life. So,Guys and Girls be free to share your views, as we can make A BETTER WORLD by sharing our precious Thoughts...


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